What You Need to Know for Your Child's First Gynecology Visit

Do you think it might be time for your teen to see a gynecologist for the first time? Good news, we're here to help them (and you!) get through that first visit with an obstetrician/gynecologist, also referred to as an OB-GYN.

The American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists recommends that teens start seeing a gynecologist between the ages of 13 and 15. Pap tests typically begin at 21. Parents, here are a few tips to help your child learn what to expect at her first visit and put their nervous thoughts aside.

Before the Gynecologist Exam

• Your child may be more comfortable if they are between periods. Doctors may see the patient during her period, however.
• Have them write down a list of questions they would like to ask the doctor. Writing down questions will make them easier to remember and ease some of the nervousness when entering the office.
• The doctor is going to ask questions, lots of them! Gather medical history for easier flow of the appointment.

What Should They Expect at Their First Visit?

• First up, a conversation with the gynecologist. The doctor will ask your child questions about family health history, menstrual cycle and vaccinations. The doctor is there to educate them so encourage honesty. Remind them not to be embarrassed, as doctors ask these questions every single day and have heard it all. No topic is off-limits!
• A physical exam is going to be performed. This is an external exam similar to the pediatrician's office, but it may also include a breast exam or external genital check. Yes, you can stay in the room if you and your child agree. The nurse will ask them to undress, and they will be given a hospital gown. A pelvic exam most likely won't be done unless they are experiencing abnormal bleeding or pain.
• When the time comes for a pelvic exam, your child's nerves may rise as they see the speculum. Remind them to take deep breaths and relax. It may feel uncomfortable. The OB-GYN will insert a speculum into the vagina so they can check for abnormalities, such as cysts or irritations.
• During the Pap test, cells are taken from the cervix with a brush to be tested for cancer. Spotting is normal following this test.

Being prepared for the first visit should ease her fears and help her take the steps necessary to build a healthy future.